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He Had an Epiphany That Took Away the Pain of His Recent Divorce

By: Farah Ali As a coach who works primarily with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), I’m accustomed to seeing clients have ‘aha moments’. EFT is a process that creates lots of epiphanies because people get past patterned/ stuck emotions and start looking at things objectively. These ahas can show up as sudden realization, so that you…

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A Couple That Argues Less – A Case Study

By: Farah Ali I recently worked with a couple (let’s call them Dave and Sally) that had tried many different approaches to fixing their marital issues before coming to me. This couple was committed to finding a solution and had put in years of work with different processes and modalities. When I met them, Dave…

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Thinking About How to Argue Better??? Why Not Argue Less Instead?

By: Farah Ali Have you ever thought: ‘If my partner and I could improve our communication skills, we’d be able to resolve our issues and finally argue less?’ I hear that from my clients all the time. There’s a plethora of communications workshops for couples. You may have tried something out. I know I have. Being a better…

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The Value of ‘T’s in Learning to Find Love

by Wildflower Years ago, before I discovered Learning to Find Love and the importance of T’s, I was single and met a man I was interested in dating. We each went to the same concert one night but separately. I was entranced by the singer’s performance and was irritated by the applause at the end…

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Female Orgasm and EFT

When I first started specializing in working with individuals who suffered from sex and intimacy challenges using EFT in 2008 I often spoke to audiences about a term referred to as “female hysteria” (FH). In case don’t know what that is and what it’s connection is to modern psychology, there are many books on the…

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Strategy No. 10 Get Present and, If You Can, Get Outside with Certified EFT Relationship Coaches Wildflower and Katie Walker

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Strategy No. 9 If It’s Not Negotiable, Don’t Negotiate with Certified EFT Relationship Coaches Wildflower and Katie Walker

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Strategy No. 8 Hug It Out with Certified EFT Relationship Coaches Wildflower and Katie Walker

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Strategy No. 7 Empathize and Paraphrase with Certified EFT Relationship Coaches Wildflower and Katie Walker

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Strategy No. 6 Natural or Logical Consequences with Certified EFT Relationship Coaches Wildflower and Katie Walker

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Strategy No. 5 Giving Warnings and Use a Timer with Certified EFT Relationship Coaches Wildflower and Katie Walker

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Strategy No. 4 Give Two Options with the Same Outcome with Certified EFT Relationship Coaches Wildflower and Katie Walker