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What To Do When Your Ex Tries To Screw You Over

The other day I worked with a client who was in a state of high anxiety because he needed to make a decision regarding his divorce. He and his wife had already decided to end the marriage. The issue was whether to have another appraisal done on their house that needed to be sold to…

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When Ending a Relationship Feels Like a Kick in the Stomach

Yesterday I worked with a client who was struggling with whether to end his relationship with his long time partner. He wanted help clarifying what aspects of their relationship problems he should take responsibility for and what pieces were truly the responsibility of his partner. The future of their relationship was in limbo and being…

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How To Choose The Right Relationship Coach

Will you choose to no longer be held hostage by your personal core issue and let it corrupt your relationship problem? Will your long held wounded influences of the past determine when to end it, when to end your relationship that is. Choosing the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) as your modality is a first brave…

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Get Rid of Him Already, What Are You Waiting For?

Procrastination is one bad habit that it’s a good idea to break. This is very important if a relationship breakup is involved and it is clear that you have tried everything possible to heal your relationship first. If you have been through couples counseling and tried innumerable retreats, workshops, self-help and together-help books and for…

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Get Rid of SAD Holidays Once And For All

Most people look forward to the holiday season. For many, it’s the religious significance, for as many, it’s the first snowfall, the opening of brightly wrapped presents, and even when they get to pretend it’s an accident when they bump into someone under the mistletoe. There are those, however, who feel sad and lonely even…

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What Is The Real Issue in My Broken Relationship?

It is important to identify what is called a core issue. That is true when trying to resolve any personal issue, be it in a relationship or some other situation, in order to know when to end it or how to end it. Especially if it’s been holding you back from enjoying inner balance, health,…

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How To Tap Your Pain Away

It’s acupuncture for the emotions. Instead of needles on acupoints, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) uses rapid tapping of the finger on the face and upper body together with statements describing a specific detail of your problem. You might describe how you feel ( ie angry, sad, hurt) about the problem or how it affects you…

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What To Do When He’s Happy Without You

The loss of a loved one who remains very much alive and well, and happy without you, can feel worse than if that loved one died. Added to the toxic soup of the normal feelings of loss and grief, is the intense sense of worthlessness from being rejected for another, and the pain of helplessness…

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How To Let Go Of After The Relationship Grief

Grief is one of the most powerfully gripping emotions. Sometimes it feels as if you have very little control, if any, over when to end it, if it will ever really be over. It seems to take on a life of its own, and often takes over yours completely. Anyone who has ever lost a…

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What Stops You From Ending A Loveless Marriage?

Like so many, you might see your marriage go from a love match to loveless arrangement in a span of only a few short years. If that is true for you then why do you stay in it for another decade or two and not make a sensible exit? What you embraced as something to…

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How Your Subconscious Can Mess With Your Relationship

“The brain processes roughly 11 million pieces of information through the 5 senses in an moment. Only 40 pieces generally make it into conscious awarenss. That means 99.99964% is processed unconsciously mostly by the adaptive unconscious.” Professor Timothy White, University of Virginia There is much that is written about concerning the importance of using your…

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How Can Tapping The Matrix Help My Relationship?

Years ago, I had learned about something called Matrix ReImprinting (MR). I was initillay ske[tical as supposedly i could go back in time and “change the past.” I was already getting great results with my EFT practice, especially with regards to relationship problems so i did not think I needed another tool. However, after my…