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Strengthening Romantic Relationships

Click here to listen to this insightful interview podcast produced by Gene Monterastelli. Our romantic relationships take up a great deal of our time and energy. They can bring us great joy and great frustration (and sometimes both at the same time). Even though each relationship is a new and different experience we can find…

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Six Strategies to Re-Connect to Your Lover

Everybody needs meaningful connections in their lives. Yet our modern society is moving towards less primary relationships and more tertiary ones. In the home, couples are also finding less quality time with each other due to various demands on them, including children, aging parents, finances, keeping a home in order and/or social involvement. At the…

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Relationships; How are Your 3 Levels of Intimacy

Sometimes people in relationships forget to spend quality time with one another. Life has a way of getting busy and stressful. Couples often forfeit the investment in their healthy relationship as a result. Don’t forget that it’s the little things, moment by moment, that add up and become ‘your life.’ Date nights and monthly planned…

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Are Bedroom Problems Always a Sign of a Stale Relationship?

By guest blogger Melissa Wells with editor Craig Weiner There’s no denying that sex is a big part of a relationship, and problems in the bedroom can sometimes be a sign that something isn’t quite right, but is an inability to perform always a sign of a stale relationship? It’s not, and, deep down, most…

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Gosh darn it, I don’t want a good relationship!

I don’t want a “good relationship,” as many relationship coaches would tell me to get…. I want a fantastic, outrageous, over-the-top connected soulmate-earthmate relationship. Why would I settle in my romantic partnership? I haven’t settled in the past. I didn’t get a “day” job when I got divorced as other people thought I should. I…

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What To Do When Your Ex Tries To Screw You Over

The other day I worked with a client who was in a state of high anxiety because he needed to make a decision regarding his divorce. He and his wife had already decided to end the marriage. The issue was whether to have another appraisal done on their house that needed to be sold to…

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When Ending a Relationship Feels Like a Kick in the Stomach

Yesterday I worked with a client who was struggling with whether to end his relationship with his long time partner. He wanted help clarifying what aspects of their relationship problems he should take responsibility for and what pieces were truly the responsibility of his partner. The future of their relationship was in limbo and being…

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How To Choose The Right Relationship Coach

Will you choose to no longer be held hostage by your personal core issue and let it corrupt your relationship problem? Will your long held wounded influences of the past determine when to end it, when to end your relationship that is. Choosing the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) as your modality is a first brave…

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Get Rid of Him Already, What Are You Waiting For?

Procrastination is one bad habit that it’s a good idea to break. This is very important if a relationship breakup is involved and it is clear that you have tried everything possible to heal your relationship first. If you have been through couples counseling and tried innumerable retreats, workshops, self-help and together-help books and for…

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Get Rid of SAD Holidays Once And For All

Most people look forward to the holiday season. For many, it’s the religious significance, for as many, it’s the first snowfall, the opening of brightly wrapped presents, and even when they get to pretend it’s an accident when they bump into someone under the mistletoe. There are those, however, who feel sad and lonely even…

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What Is The Real Issue in My Broken Relationship?

It is important to identify what is called a core issue. That is true when trying to resolve any personal issue, be it in a relationship or some other situation, in order to know when to end it or how to end it. Especially if it’s been holding you back from enjoying inner balance, health,…

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How To Tap Your Pain Away

It’s acupuncture for the emotions. Instead of needles on acupoints, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) uses rapid tapping of the finger on the face and upper body together with statements describing a specific detail of your problem. You might describe how you feel ( ie angry, sad, hurt) about the problem or how it affects you…