Founder's Corner
How To Tap Your Pain Away
It’s acupuncture for the emotions. Instead of needles on acupoints, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) uses rapid tapping of the finger on the face and upper body together with statements describing a specific detail of your problem. You might describe how you feel ( ie angry, sad, hurt) about the problem or how it affects you…
What To Do When He’s Happy Without You
The loss of a loved one who remains very much alive and well, and happy without you, can feel worse than if that loved one died. Added to the toxic soup of the normal feelings of loss and grief, is the intense sense of worthlessness from being rejected for another, and the pain of helplessness…
How To Let Go Of After The Relationship Grief
Grief is one of the most powerfully gripping emotions. Sometimes it feels as if you have very little control, if any, over when to end it, if it will ever really be over. It seems to take on a life of its own, and often takes over yours completely. Anyone who has ever lost a…
What Stops You From Ending A Loveless Marriage?
Like so many, you might see your marriage go from a love match to loveless arrangement in a span of only a few short years. If that is true for you then why do you stay in it for another decade or two and not make a sensible exit? What you embraced as something to…
How Your Subconscious Can Mess With Your Relationship
“The brain processes roughly 11 million pieces of information through the 5 senses in an moment. Only 40 pieces generally make it into conscious awarenss. That means 99.99964% is processed unconsciously mostly by the adaptive unconscious.” Professor Timothy White, University of Virginia There is much that is written about concerning the importance of using your…
How Can Tapping The Matrix Help My Relationship?
Years ago, I had learned about something called Matrix ReImprinting (MR). I was initillay ske[tical as supposedly i could go back in time and “change the past.” I was already getting great results with my EFT practice, especially with regards to relationship problems so i did not think I needed another tool. However, after my…
Is There Help for Breakup Depression?
Whether it’s a good breakup or a bad one, breaking up with someone you love is never easy and it can result in deep feelings of sadness and grief. Some people who decide when to end a relationship may be able to accept the situation and move on while it may take some time for…
When Sex Goes Bad In A Marriage
Sex is one of the big reasons why a relationship can go sour. The loss of a satisfying sex life with a partner can make one ask when to end it although the effects may not be immediately obvious. Based on the research regarding the topics of money, sex, and happiness in a relationship, it’s…
How to Clear The Anxiety Born of a Failed Relationship
Requests for me to help people clear anxiety are common from clients with a wide variety of stories to tell. My experience is that many anxiety problems are born out of failed relationships. Such anxiety issues can have a deep and lasting impact on a person which can be wounding and sometimes debilitating. There are…
How To Stop The Cycle of Compulsive Hoarding After A Divorce
In the United States, there are over a million people suffering from pathological hoarding. Many may not accept this fact but compulsive hoarding is real and some of the sufferers are those who have had broken relationships—may it be with a boyfriend/girlfriend, spouse, familial relations, etc. It seems people who experienced heartbreak turn their attention…
Addressing Procrastination after a Broken Relationship
Having a broken relationship is hard to deal with at first. Some individuals know when to end it and easily get over a broken relationship, while some may find difficulty in moving on. After a relationship ends, people may turn to food, shopping, sleeping, or procrastinating to deal with a broken heart. With the many…
5 Tips For Saying Goodbye to Breakup Grief
Grief is one of the most difficult emotions to resolve. And there are many layers of grief. Grief occurs after a person faces a tragic event in his/her life. This tragedy may be due to the unexpected ending of a relationship as in a break-up, divorce, or death of a loved one. If you are…