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Gosh darn it, I don’t want a good relationship!

I don’t want a “good relationship,” as many relationship coaches would tell me to get…. I want a fantastic, outrageous, over-the-top connected soulmate-earthmate relationship. Why would I settle in my romantic partnership? I haven’t settled in the past. I didn’t get a “day” job when I got divorced as other people thought I should. I…

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Get Rid of Him Already, What Are You Waiting For?

Procrastination is one bad habit that it’s a good idea to break. This is very important if a relationship breakup is involved and it is clear that you have tried everything possible to heal your relationship first. If you have been through couples counseling and tried innumerable retreats, workshops, self-help and together-help books and for…

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What Is The Real Issue in My Broken Relationship?

It is important to identify what is called a core issue. That is true when trying to resolve any personal issue, be it in a relationship or some other situation, in order to know when to end it or how to end it. Especially if it’s been holding you back from enjoying inner balance, health,…

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How To Tap Your Pain Away

It’s acupuncture for the emotions. Instead of needles on acupoints, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) uses rapid tapping of the finger on the face and upper body together with statements describing a specific detail of your problem. You might describe how you feel ( ie angry, sad, hurt) about the problem or how it affects you…

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What To Do When He’s Happy Without You

The loss of a loved one who remains very much alive and well, and happy without you, can feel worse than if that loved one died. Added to the toxic soup of the normal feelings of loss and grief, is the intense sense of worthlessness from being rejected for another, and the pain of helplessness…

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How To Let Go Of After The Relationship Grief

Grief is one of the most powerfully gripping emotions. Sometimes it feels as if you have very little control, if any, over when to end it, if it will ever really be over. It seems to take on a life of its own, and often takes over yours completely. Anyone who has ever lost a…

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How Your Subconscious Can Mess With Your Relationship

“The brain processes roughly 11 million pieces of information through the 5 senses in an moment. Only 40 pieces generally make it into conscious awarenss. That means 99.99964% is processed unconsciously mostly by the adaptive unconscious.” Professor Timothy White, University of Virginia There is much that is written about concerning the importance of using your…

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How Can Tapping The Matrix Help My Relationship?

Years ago, I had learned about something called Matrix ReImprinting (MR). I was initillay ske[tical as supposedly i could go back in time and “change the past.” I was already getting great results with my EFT practice, especially with regards to relationship problems so i did not think I needed another tool. However, after my…

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Is There Help for Breakup Depression?

Whether it’s a good breakup or a bad one, breaking up with someone you love is never easy and it can result in deep feelings of sadness and grief. Some people who decide when to end a relationship may be able to accept the situation and move on while it may take some time for…